Dating your husband
And as our family has grown we’ve found ourselves dating even less. :) Last month we announced that we would be embarking…
It was the summer of ’99 and he looked at me and thought, “Ohhhhhh she’s lookin’ so fine”…..
Some of these ideas are home grown, and many are as a result of scouring the web for some of the best inexpensive date nights out there. And if you want to stay in, while still getting in a great workout, have fun with a little Sexercise. Kid-Free Slumber Party: Make a cozy pallet for you and your spouse on the living room floor [with] lots of blankets, pillows, snacks, and movies. Last week, I met a man in his mid-70s who put on his bucket list 40 years ago to travel to more than 200 non-US cities in his lifetime. Gather memorabilia that symbolizes your love for one another. I’d never even thought about this but it makes so much sense. If you live near a beach, lake, stream or riverwalk, this is perfect for you – the stereotypical “walk on the beach” isn’t actually cliche at all. It’s not too late to declare tomorrow National Lazy Day? And the many commitments between your first words and that final line are something worth celebrating.
We call it a ‘slumber party.‘ It’s a little silly, but super fun and makes us enjoy the little things in life. He was at #182 and was hitting the road this summer to travel to another 10 more. Grab a couple notebooks and write down all the dreams you hope to accomplish before you ‘kick the bucket’ and decide together which ones you will tackle first (and which ones you can do for free). A wedding invitation, saved wine cork, concert/plane ticket, copy of children’s birth records, meaningful photos, love letters and anything else that is unique to the story of your love. Load it up with tons of hay (if you have some available), sleeping bags, some snacks and a bottle of wine. Hardly anyone is out early at the local parks and you’ll enjoy the lovely light of morning as you sip your steamy lattes, munch on some fruit, take a stroll or just sit around and smooch. This is especially fun if you don’t live in the south and have only seen a fish fry on television. The Mighty Ducks (not kidding, there really was three). Some of the greatest memories I have with my husband are holding hands walking along the water somewhere in the world. Sit across from each other and set the timer for 60 minutes.
But for less than , you can imagine where we were seated, right? Our date quickly went up in smoke…literally and figuratively…and we got out of there pretty quickly. You’re never committed to buy anything and they just gave you at least one free date with your honey. Love this idea HWC contributor Paula Rollo came up with when she and her hubby were in a similar predicament last year. But for those lucky enough to have a private backyard, pull the comforter off your bed, grab a bottle of wine and two glasses, and take your date outside. Last night, we were at a Pan-Asian restaurant and they were promoting the upcoming National Noodle Day (October 6th for all you noodle lovers).
Over the years, we’ve gotten much better with our frugal dates. Have you noticed that nearly every new fitness studio has a “first class free” special? Workout together and then come home and get washed off together (I’ll let you decide what that means). You have just a few more times to catch a full moon before the year ends so take advantage now. A Moment in Time Seal your time together by constructing and burying a time capsule. So why not create your own national holiday, mark it on your calendar and celebrate it each and every year? There is something incredibly sacred about vowing to love one another til’ death do you part.
He'll be touched by the thoughtful gesture, and the exercise will give you an important reminder of why you picked him in the first place. Actually cook one of the meals in your "someday" recipe file (or your Pinterest board).
Surprise him with the list—leave it on his bed, email it to him, sit down after dinner and read it together.Consider this passage: “When the Lord restored the fortunes of Zion, we were like those who dream. But this year, our entire focus has changed to treasuring each other. It’s not overtly discussed in scripture, and those living somewhere between single and married often ask us for advice.My tendency is to wait until the last minute, buy something to make up for lost time, and hope Selena feels loved. So, I figured it was time to write a post specifically for those who are in serious dating relationships, or want to learn principles for dating when they meet that special someone. Sure, we’ve been out to dinner and done many activities in the name of pursuing each other, but we haven’t been as intentional about it as we would’ve liked.That’s the essence of romance: intentional pursuit. Your earliest moments as a couple likely included plenty of conversation, laughter, and fun.I’m not just talking about covering the bed with rose petals and lighting a few candles. Your foundation of friendship will sustain you when feelings of romance come and go. Laugh more, encourage constantly, listen intently, and share transparently. We’re not too different from most folks in that we’ve exchanged thoughtful cards, I’ve given Selena roses, and on a few occasions, jewelry.